damnitamy

- insults on looks
- ordering you to do things you're already doing
- projection

they are all signs that there is NOTHING BETTER TO PICK ON YOU FOR.

so recognize it, smile, and be kind in response. they're actually complementing you on your strength and talent.

always remember to consider the source of true criticism. many times your biggest critic is the one who is most jealous. recognize the yapping chiuauas trying to prove something as opposed to those who are giving TRUE criticism with your benefit in mind.

there is a civil and uncivil way of resolving discrepancies.

DON'T STOOP TO THEIR LEVEL!!! otherwise, you're just like them. yipping chiuauas. congrats, you've just lost.